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What is the definition of status quo?
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WIKI Answer:
(1) It refers to the present situation.
(2) It is often represented by a law.
(3) It is not a view, but people can be against it.
status quo
[kwoh] Show IPA
noun
the existing state or condition.
Also called status in quo.
Origin:
1825–35; < Latin status quō literally, state in which
1825–35; < Latin status quō literally, state in which
What does status quo mean?
WIKI Answer:
(1) It refers to the present situation.
(2) It is often represented by a law.
(3) It is not a view, but people can be against it.
My New Year's Resolution for 2013 was to maintain my own "status quo." It was born out of a conversation I had with a mentor years ago, when I expressed a need to grow in my current job. She actually asked me, "Why do you need to grow now? What's wrong with just status quo?"
I had no answer for her, except that I was bored and tired and needed something MORE. But I pondered her question for a long time. So, in late December, I asked myself that question.
I decided to give status quo a try. After all, 2012 had been a huge year for me professionally: I released my first co-authored book and found a new job that is completely outside my comfort zone. It was time to build up the skills I already had without adding anything new.
Hence, I chose the words "For once I want to enjoy my status quo" when I declared my goals for 2013.
Who would of thought some of my closest friends would tell me this is a horrible idea? And then they reprimanded me for even thinking it.
But my stance is personal. It's about MY STATUS QUO, not anyone else's. I desire to enjoy my "state in which". I desire to appreciate my "present situation". I want to develop skills I already have, maybe even perfect them. I want to grow taller, not spread out even more. I want my roots to take hold so my foundation feels more secure than it did last year. I want to catch my breath.
So, I am where my mentor was a few years ago. And now, I turn the question around to them and ask: "So what IS wrong with status quo?" because in the end: Everything is in a state of flux, including the status quo. Robert Byrne
PS-I started this blog a few weeks ago. And I may have to declare my New Year's Resolution a wash. I have accepted yet another challenging and growth inspiring professional role. Maybe I'm not meant to have a status quo.
I had no answer for her, except that I was bored and tired and needed something MORE. But I pondered her question for a long time. So, in late December, I asked myself that question.
I decided to give status quo a try. After all, 2012 had been a huge year for me professionally: I released my first co-authored book and found a new job that is completely outside my comfort zone. It was time to build up the skills I already had without adding anything new.
Hence, I chose the words "For once I want to enjoy my status quo" when I declared my goals for 2013.
Who would of thought some of my closest friends would tell me this is a horrible idea? And then they reprimanded me for even thinking it.
But my stance is personal. It's about MY STATUS QUO, not anyone else's. I desire to enjoy my "state in which". I desire to appreciate my "present situation". I want to develop skills I already have, maybe even perfect them. I want to grow taller, not spread out even more. I want my roots to take hold so my foundation feels more secure than it did last year. I want to catch my breath.
So, I am where my mentor was a few years ago. And now, I turn the question around to them and ask: "So what IS wrong with status quo?" because in the end: Everything is in a state of flux, including the status quo. Robert Byrne
PS-I started this blog a few weeks ago. And I may have to declare my New Year's Resolution a wash. I have accepted yet another challenging and growth inspiring professional role. Maybe I'm not meant to have a status quo.
Finally got a chance to see this. :) I love the quote "And then they reprimanded me for even thinking it" because that was not our intent at all.
ReplyDeleteI am giggling right now at your post script. :) You are the greatest...whether you stay in the status quo or continue your onward journey, I love you.
these are the things that I didnt know at all
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